"The journey of a thousand miles begins with
the first step"
Get
to know your ancestors records and you will get to know a little more
about yourself. After all they are an integral part of who you are.
Not knowing your STORY is like listening to a
sountrack from a movie that you haven't seen. You can enjoy the music
but you can't fully appreciate what the music is trying to tell you
without knowing the story line. And the story line is you AND your
ancestors.
Picture yourself looking through a scratchy old
microfilm. You've been at it for what seems like hours, or is it weeks?
Feeling very dispondent - a common ailment among genealogists - and
there amidst the scrawl of a thousand names..... your name, well your
great grandfather's actually. There he is, Harold Crum in all his
glory! Dates, places, the lot. You are ecstatic. You are hooked!
Not a Solo Journey
Your ancestry records are not just yours alone.
There may be 5, 10 or 50 other people around the world researching YOUR
family. And some of those may be just like you - taking their first
faltering steps into the (as yet) great unknown. You may never meet
them personally but KNOW that they are standing right beside you. There
is a special comradrie amongst genealogists. A willingness to share,
enlighten and uplift that exists, to my knowledge, in no other hobby.
Total strangers will bend over backwards to assist you.Even
those researching entirely different family trees
willingly offer guidance. Don't feel that you have to do this all
by yourself.
Clue #3 - Don't treat your
ancestors as statistics. Get to know them as people. Your research into
ancestry records will then become a 'labour of love' instead of just a
'labour'.
They Were Real People
Now it's one thing to know names, ages and
embarrassing birth marks but these were real people - flesh and bones.
They weren't just scribble on a piece of paper. Try and really get to
know the people you research.
Actually an embarrassing birth mark is probably
an exciting piece of information! So work on it. Jot their names and
all that of course but endeavour to look beyond. Old photos and family
photos are great. You can learn heaps just from a photo. For instance
great great Aunty Flora may be sitting at a desk holding a pen. What
hand is she using? See what I mean? You would never find that
information in a dry old parish record.
Ask questions of relatives - living of course. Be
considerate and, most importantly, diplomatic.
Journal
writing is another great exercise. Write the bits and pieces
down as you find them out. Details from letters, newspaper articles,
wills. Before long you'll know more about Aunty Flora than her own
mother!